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mymind's avatar

This alone, so on point: "interpretation is an active process."

Highlighted and saved lots of this, thank you!

silvia ⋆.π™š ̊'s avatar

yesss exactly!!! also thank you so much, I’m glad it resonated

opal's avatar

I loved how cleanly you explained this concept. They way you put it makes it so understandable and forces the reader to self reflect. Great piece!

silvia ⋆.π™š ̊'s avatar

you’re so kind, thank you! I’m so glad it resonated with you<3

pasquale.'s avatar

We only see from where we sit. I enjoyed this read (new to substack)

silvia ⋆.π™š ̊'s avatar

so well said!! also welcome to substack!!!

pasquale.'s avatar

Thanks still getting the hang of it haha

The Artisanal Guy (TAG)'s avatar

Great reminder of what it means to human. We act and feel based on history, context, and our very own β€˜filters’ that we employ. I would like to suggest that we also need to learn how to be present to see and appreciate truths and facts. Our collective survival as a species and society requires that we also accept that there are truths.

Apricot Daydream's avatar

I don’t know why it took me all my life to find content like this. Reading this quite literally felt like a weight was lifted off my shoulders.

silvia ⋆.π™š ̊'s avatar

wow Matt thank you!!! better late than never :)

ABSURD's avatar

As always, a lovely reminder and perspective shift for the day. Reminds me of the book β€˜The Forgetting Machine’ by neuroscientist Rodrigo Quian Quiroga.

Alejandro's avatar

I'm Sorry, pero voy a dejar el comentario en espaΓ±ol. CΓ³mo ves la vida a travΓ©s de tus lentes es todo. Para uno un gato es un animal maravilloso y para otros es un bicho del diablo.

Aakanksha's avatar

love the way u write and it was so simple to understand thx silvia

silvia ⋆.π™š ̊'s avatar

thank you so much!!!! <3 always trying to write on topics & make them digestible & relatable - means a lot

Aakanksha's avatar

u most welcome plz keep sharing this kind of articles

Dannis Cole's avatar

Such a thoughtful piece! I agree, things are only as we see them. At 11, I tried to give everyone the benefit of the doubt when they said or did something that hurt my feelings. I never regretted my life choice to hesitate when I got irritated. It didn't always stop me from jumping to a conclusion, but I avoided a lot of conflicts that way. I wish more people would be aware as you are, and your writing will help. Thanks for sharing!

silvia ⋆.π™š ̊'s avatar

Thank you! It’s always hard but beautiful when we can return to that child-like wonder. That pause you learned so young is such a powerful practice. I’m happy the piece resonated with you

tiara's avatar

this was so well-written and put into words a lot of what i’ve been thinking about recently but have been unable to describe. thank you for writing this!

silvia ⋆.π™š ̊'s avatar

wow thank YOU so much! that means so much & I’m happy it resonated <3

The Reset Guide's avatar

Silvia, your dad's "lens" lesson at 11 is gold, perception as active filter explains so much adult friction.

Tsetsy's avatar

Π’he awareness that perspective is a choice, is a gift that your dad gave you and most people don’t get it until adulthood, . Stunning piece!

silvia ⋆.π™š ̊'s avatar

thank you so much! I’m glad you enjoyed it

Hairl Sagan's avatar

Sobering… If not AI-generated, it shows the way we are already artificially intelligent.

silvia ⋆.π™š ̊'s avatar

Interesting perspective, I always thought it’s what made us human. But you might be onto something…

Amber Noyas's avatar

This is truly incredible.

silvia ⋆.π™š ̊'s avatar

thank you so much!! <3

Muse of Harmony's avatar

Very interesting and poignant article! Thank you for writing this. You had me rereading to take it in. β™₯️

silvia ⋆.π™š ̊'s avatar

thank you so much for your kind words <3!! I’m glad it resonated

NoName's avatar

I love this.